James

English

Hello Studly Gents. Well, no one is more surprised than I am to find myself in a search for a love that will last to the end of my days. My ultimate dream man of color possesses presence and an easy smile. He has had some success in life. He is adaptable, open, honest and sees commitment as foundational and not a thing to fear or evade. These attributes are ones I strive to maintain in my own life.

I have four, independent, adult children, my parents are alive and still married...to each other and my six grandchildren represent an experience beyond description.

My former wife and I raised our children to be open-minded and to embrace the strength and beauty of diversity in all its forms. This has been a personal, constant tenet by which I have lived my life.

I have no fears over blending another family with my own. On my side, rest assured we have done it many times before with mostly great results.

I am an extrovert. If you are MBTI - conversant I am an ENFJ and I have Master Practitioner certification from the Myers-Briggs Foundation which I use solely for pro-bono assessments of friends and family.

I seek a black man with a kind heart and an intellect that is real and a personality that is easily approached. Ultimately, I seek a partner in all things. Someone whose is as fair-minded as I am and whose mental health is good and whose heart has ample capacity for love.
I know, I know. I am asking for the moon and the stars, but as the saying goes, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." And as Lin Manuel Miranda
wrote, "I am not throwing away my shot!"

Libra

Fit

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Single

Yes - Not At Home

Hair

Visible Tattoo

Grey

No pets

No

Some College

Retired

Retired

Alone

Friends Come Over Often

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Brain

Observant, Party Starter, Outgoing

Family, Dining, Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Fishing / Hunting, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert

A drink at my house. Uber to Dinner at a new restaurant neither of us have tried. Walk through the park after din ner. Rooftop bar for champagne cocktails. Uber back to my house for the start of the real fun.

Motoryacht living.

Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Goofy

Other

Once A Month

Very Liberal

Medicare for ALL!

Campy, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Sadistic, I Never Laugh

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller, I'm A Movie Actor, Adult

Electronic, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Latin, Ambient, Dance

News, Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Political, Reference, Religious, Satire, Science

Live Musical Theatre. Consignment Store Shopping. Dining al Fresco, Anything in Palm Springs, Quiet Moments with the Right Guy, A life well-lived. Making a difference in someone's life.

Wit, Money, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

I am looking for the Unicorn! Ideally, I would like to find someone who is at the same spot in his life that I am, knowing that timing is everything. Someone who is open to building a new life together with me that endures, that grows and becomes something we each cherish and take pride in. I am a realist with dreams. I know that some toad-kissing will take place before my new prince appears and I'm okay with casual dating and making new friends. I look for optimism, respect, and enjoy people who represent net-positives for mankind. Narcissists should not bother contacting me. You really won't like where I shove your gaslighting and manipulations.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed